We read, we search, we ask, we discuss but the fact is no book or dictionary or magazine or search engine can actually define LOVE. It can’t be measured and doesn’t come with a rulebook of its own. Love just happens and when it does, very few of us are left sensible enough to ask when, what and how? “We simply fall in love and even gravitation cannot be held responsible for it” once said the foremost scientist of modern times Albert Einstein. Understanding love is no less than making an attempt to master ROCKET SCIENCE. The latter can still be studied and comprehended but love remains undefined.
A mother falls in love with her baby even before he enters the world. We tend to fall in love with every other star or performer, even without knowing them. A little boy insanely loves his cricket bat for no reason. A young girl carries her favourite and beloved doll wherever she goes. Humans fall in love with animals (and vice-versa) despite of the semantic barriers. Basically, we tend to fall in love all the time! Love is as important for our soul as is air and food for our bodies. We just cannot do without it. Not only because Love is a necessity but “the feeling of getting loved” is what contributes to our happiness.
Question of the hour: Can we fall in love more than once??
Think of the times where you used to fall in love with your school teacher, college professor, neighbour, best friend’s partner and the list is endless. Despite of knowing the fact it’s never going to happen, we fell in love many a times. Where break-ups, separation, divorce, etc puts an end to one relationship; it gives you the strength to move on in life at the same time. It all depends one’s perspective of dealing with the situation. One learns to love the new love of their life in a different way thereby falling in love twice. The fact is it’s not about twice or thrice or infinity, what matters is the need to understand the importance of moving ahead in your life with someone who is comforting, understanding and has more in common than the first love of their life. Rightly said “Love is not about finding the right person but about creating a right relationship.” Not any kind of love is enough, true love is what matters the most. Some find it at 5, some at 16 while some may find it at the age of 70 years!! It hardly makes a difference how old you are, love happens when it has to.
When your partner’s happiness becomes a priority, when you do things which you never thought of, when life gives you a reason to live for someone special, etc are a few signs to tell you that you are in “love”. Some people are lucky enough to find their special one in one go while others might have to go through heartbreak. Instead of making a count of the number of time one falls in love, it’s better to leave things to the almighty. Things would fall in place without making any efforts when it happens with the right person and at the right time.
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