What’s the first thing that comes to your mind when you feel stressed or suffocated?? Yes, you guessed it right. All you can think of is to TAKE A BREAK. A break from your monotonous routine to relax and sort the confusions in your head. A little time away from your periodic life not only rejuvenates your body and soul, but also keeps you calm and sorted.
The ability to give each other the required amount of SPACE is the essence of every relationship. Staying apart from each other for a while not only dissolves your differences and frustrations, but helps you grow and exercise your own diversity. Where you’re feeling trapped and facing unending arguments and quarrels, taking a break seem to be the best solution.
“On a break” means a Break-up- A Myth
Every relationship involves compromises and adjustments to keep things healthy and happy and while doing so, many a times one or both feel resentment towards each other without involving anyone in particular. Where both learn to let go a part of themselves to settle their issues, feeling of “losing their own self” is an observed phenomenon. There comes a point in a relationship where one or both the partners feel the need for some space and break from each other to re-discover themselves. However, this little break in a relation is often confused with a break-up. One needs to understand the importance of being an individual first in order to be whole together as a couple. Instead of scratching their heads to estimate whether the BREAK is going to make or break a relation, it’s better to leave it up to destiny. The special moments shared, the great times spent together, the dreams, the habits, things you like or dislike, when you start missing all of it, that’s when your love grows like never before. It helps in building a better bond and diverts one’s focus towards the attention and efforts required in a relationship to keep it healthy. It will break if it has to, so the fear of losing a relationship if you take a break should be given up. What’s not in our control is not worth of giving a thought.
Ups and downs are a part of life and a little time spent away from your loved one might help you protect your relationship for a lifetime. However, it doesn’t give you the right to try your luck with someone else. Instead of just cribbing about the whole situation, utilise your time in the best possible manner by hanging out with friends/family, pursuing your hobbies, etc. Rethink about the issues and find out ways to resolve them. Always remember “Sometimes the greatest journey is the distance between two people”.
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