This phrase is the most dreaded aspect of any marriage, and is often decoded as “honey, you are in trouble…” however, the partners often forget the real danger hidden under it.
The real danger lies in the need to “talk”. The busy lives led by us leave no room for talking; it is negated and left for the “emergency-times”. Why does the “need-to-talk” appear at the very crucial point of the relation? The answer is very simple; we often forget to TALK otherwise!
How to handle it
Talking is definitely a remedy to sort out any matter, even a superpower like U.S.A never shies away from “peace-talk”. Then why do we run away from talking? Or take it as a red alert? The best solution is definitely to talk it out! So whenever we are summoned by our special-ones for the “talk”, we are only supposed to walk calmly and solve the matter.
How to avoid such talking sessions in future
A routine with a session of 20-30 minutes of talking everyday will save you from any catastrophe. Worldly-wise people claim that hiding the truth from your spouse (if it is likely to disappoint them or break your marriage) is best way to keep the bond intact. However, these myths should never be trusted, as they do nothing except being a catalyst to rupture a marriage. Lies never help, thus a confession session is better than the “talk”. Lastly, it is not funny to tell your spouse how you love them over a thousand times, the cuddling sessions or the over the phone love you sessions should never cease, drill it into their minds how you care for them and how you long to hear their voice at the end of a busy day.
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