It is said that marriages are made in heaven. True. But the two earthlings so coupled by Him must work hard to keep it intact. The following tips will preserve the marriage better than leaving it again on The Arranger.
Be happy in the company of each other. He should be as happy to come home in the evening as the wife should be sorry to see him go in the morning. Of course, the boys will do good to remember what Lyndon B. Johnson had said “I have learnt that only two things are necessary to keep one’s wife happy. First, let her think she’s having her way. And second, let her have it.”
Mutual Respect will give rise to a lasting feeling of love and affection. Lack of respect towards the other partner or her/his beliefs is what makes a couple alienate fast from each other. Keep quiet if you don’t believe in all those demons and’ rakhshas’ so fervently feared by her. Do not laugh at him when he starts shouting at the stupidity of Indian Cricket team finding all kinds of choicest expletives for the Captain’s decisions.
Believe in the Institution and sanctity of marriage. It is not a temporary affair. Only a foundation made on this belief will make it last-proving –lived happily thereafter. Boys should pay more attention to this dictum.
Faith in the honesty of partner is intrinsic to the longevity of marriage. This will make the partners refrain from all kinds of caustic remarks and avoidable volatile situations.
Let all quarrels end naturally. No amount of sulk or frown or even guilt is going to bring back the period prior to the start of a quarrel you will surely have sometime. So, all quarrels must end the next morning. Accept the dissent. This goes for both parties in the quarrel..
Extra martial relation are against the rule of faith and love .But those who cannot help must consider that it could be done only if you are ready to accept the same in the partner. Do not take it as your exclusive prerogative. In other words do not indulge in this web of deceit and sorrow.
Praise the partner at any and every opportunity. This is the best way to bring in all the above factors in the equation. Do it especially when you are in company.
Never reprimand in the presence of others. Stand by to save and defend. It is also necessary to give the correct opinion frankly, in private that may even prove the other one wrong. This is the thumb rule to make the partner begin to love you and even accept one’s mistake in private later.
The three magic words-I Love you-are the most difficult to say sincerely after some period past of marriage. Say it again and again. Say it as if you really mean it. Running away to office and throwing it on the partner from the doorway will not do.
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